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Asking For a Turn With My Words
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Portrait of sammy
proud
Sammy and Mara building with blocks together
● Reading...
classroom block corner — morning rug time

Asking For a Turn With My Words

I love building towers with blocks at school. Mara and I build together every day. I am learning to wait for my turn.

I love building towers with blocks blocks at school. Mara and I build together every day. I am learning to wait for my turn.

I Love Building

I love blocks. Mara and I build. I wait my turn.

boy boy
friends friends
blocks blocks
happy happy
Portrait of sammy
frustrated
Mara picking up the red block while Sammy looks angry
● Reading...
classroom block corner — Mara reaches for the red block

I Wanted That Block

One morning, Mara picks up the red block. I wanted that block for my tower. My body feels tight and warm inside. It is okay to feel this way.

One morning, Mara picks up the red blocks block. I wanted that blocks block for my tower. My body feels tight and warm inside. It is okay to feel this way.

I Wanted That Block

Mara picks up the red block. I wanted it. My body feels tight. It is okay.

friends friends
blocks blocks
angry angry
Portrait of sammy
calming
Sammy closing his eyes and imagining a STOP sign
● Reading...
classroom block corner — Sammy pausing alone at the rug edge

Stop and Breathe

I stop before my hands move. I take a slow, deep breath. I can try to ask with my words.

I stop stop before my hands move. I take a slow, deep breath. I can try to ask with my words.

Stop and Breathe

I stop. I take a deep breath. I can try to ask.

stop stop
breathe breathe
hands hands
Portrait of sammy
calm
Sammy speaking calmly to Mara about the block
● Reading...
classroom rug — Sammy walks across to where Mara sits

I Ask With My Words

I walk over to where Mara sits. I say, 'Can I please have a turn? ' Mara hears my calm words.

I walk over to where Mara sits. I say, 'Can I please have a turn? ' Mara hears my calm words.

Sammy: "Can I please have a turn?"

I Ask

I walk to Mara. I say please. Mara hears me.

boy boy
talk talk
calm calm
Portrait of mara
warm
Mara giving the block back and both children smiling
● Reading...
classroom rug — Mara holds out the block, teacher nearby

Mara Shares With Me

Mara did not know I wanted the block. She holds it out to share. The teacher sees us working it out.

Mara did not know I wanted the block. She holds it out to share share. The teacher sees us working it out.

Mara: "Here, Sammy! Let's share."

Adult: "I love how Sammy asked."

Mara Shares

Mara did not know. She shares the block. The teacher smiles.

friends friends
share share
good good
Portrait of sammy
proud
Sammy and Mara proudly showing their tall block tower
● Reading...
classroom block corner — the tallest tower ever built

Words Build Tall Towers

We build the tallest tower together. Asking with words helped us both. I feel proud my words worked.

We build the tallest tower together. Asking with words helped us both. I feel proud proud my words worked.

Words Work!

We build the tallest tower! I feel proud. Words helped us both.

boy boy
friends friends
talk talk
proud proud
Portrait of sammy
reflective
Sammy smiling with the STOP, breathe, use words steps shown
● Reading...
Classroom

The Rule

When I feel angry, I can try STOP. I can try to breathe. I can try to use my words. My hands can stay calm and kind. Words work better than grabbing. I can try each time!

When I feel angry, I can try stop STOP. I can try to breathe breathe. I can try to use my words. My hands can stay calm and kind. Words work better than grabbing. I can try each time!

Remember

Feel angry? I can try to STOP. Breathe. Use words. Hands can stay calm. Words can work!

stop stop
breathe breathe
talk talk
hands hands
Home

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