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When My Body Wants to Squeeze
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Portrait of sammy
proud
Sammy and Mom sitting on the sofa talking about touches
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living room couch

I Know Gentle Touches

I love giving gentle hugs and high-fives. My hands know how to be soft. Mom says my hugs feel warm. I am good at gentle touches.

I love giving gentle gentle hugs and high-fives. My hands know how to be soft. Mom says my hugs feel warm. I am good at gentle gentle touches.

I Am Gentle

I give gentle hugs. My hands can be soft. I am good at gentle touches.

mom mom
gentle gentle
no no
Portrait of sammy
uncertain
Examples of gentle touches: high-five, handshake, pat, hug
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school playground near the climbing structure

A Big Feeling in My Body

Sometimes my body gets a big squeeze feeling. My hands want to squeeze or hold tight. Mara looks surprised when a touch feels strong. Sammy wonders what is happening in his body.

Sometimes my body gets a big squeeze feeling. My hands want to squeeze or hold tight. Mara looks surprised when a touch feels strong. Sammy wonders what is happening in his body.

The Squeeze Feeling

My body gets a squeeze feeling. Touches can feel too strong. Friends look surprised.

high-five high-five
handshake handshake
hug hug
good good
Portrait of sammy
curious
Examples of not-gentle touches with X marks
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Sammy's bedroom with stuffed animals on the bed

My Body Sends Sensory Messages

It is okay to have sensory feelings inside. My body sends me squeeze messages sometimes. A squeeze toy helps my body feel calm. Mom and Sammy talk about sensory feelings together.

It is okay to have sensory feelings inside. My body sends me squeeze messages sometimes. A squeeze toy helps my body feel calm. Mom and Sammy talk about sensory feelings together.

Mom: "Sensory feelings are real. Sammy's body is telling him something."

Sensory Feelings Are Okay

It is okay to feel squeeze feelings. A squeeze toy helps my body. Mom helps Sammy understand.

push push
grab grab
no no
sad sad
Portrait of sammy
learning
Sammy asking Mara for a high-five
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classroom at a small round table near the bookshelves

Everyone Has Their Own Body

Friends have bodies that belong to them. Their bodies feel things in different ways. I can try asking before I touch. The teacher helps Sammy practice the words.

Friends have bodies that belong to them. Their bodies feel things in different ways. I can try asking before I touch. The teacher helps Sammy practice the words.

Teacher: "Sammy, let's practice asking words together."

Ask Before Touching

Friends have their own bodies. I can try asking first. The teacher helps Sammy.

boy boy
question question
friends friends
good good
Portrait of sammy
calm
Sammy waving hello after Dem says no to a hug
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school playground near the oak tree and swings

Sammy Tries at Playtime

Sammy feels the squeeze feeling at playtime. He takes a breath and asks Dem. Dem smiles and holds up his hand. The teacher nearby gives Sammy a smile.

Sammy feels the squeeze feeling at playtime. He takes a breath and asks Dem. Dem smiles and holds up his hand. The teacher nearby gives Sammy a smile.

Sammy: "Can I give a high-five?"

Dem: "Yes!"

Sammy Asks First

Sammy feels squeeze feelings. He asks Dem first. Dem says yes. The teacher smiles.

no no
calm calm
wave wave
Portrait of sammy
proud
Sammy standing confidently with his hand up saying no
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living room couch at home in the evening

Sammy Knows His Body

Sammy knows his body and its feelings. He asks before touching his friends now. My body belongs to me. Sammy and his friends both feel safe.

Sammy knows his body and its feelings. He asks before touching his friends now. My body belongs to me. Sammy and his friends both feel safe safe.

Mom: "Sammy asked before touching today."

Sammy Feels Proud

Sammy knows his body. He asks friends first. My body belongs to me. Friends feel safe.

boy boy
stop stop
safe safe
adult adult
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