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When the Plan Changes, I Can Ask and Wait
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Portrait of sammy
proud
My Brain Is Good at Planning
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Sammy's bedroom

My Brain Is Good at Planning

My brain is good at planning and knowing what to expect each day. I like knowing what comes next — at school and at home. This sense of order helps my brain feel steady and ready.

My brain is good at planning and knowing what to expect each day. I like knowing what comes next — at school and at home. This sense of order helps my brain feel steady and ready.

I Am Good at Planning

I know what will happen each day. I like having a plan. A plan helps my brain feel calm.

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Portrait of sammy
surprised
Sometimes a Plan Changes
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school hallway

Sometimes a Plan Changes

Sometimes a plan changes without warning — a lesson is moved or a trip is cancelled. At school, this can happen at any time, and my brain gets the news all at once. My brain was ready for one thing, and now it works to shift to something new.

Sometimes a plan changes without warning — a lesson is moved or a trip is cancelled. At school school, this can happen at any time, and my brain gets the news all at once. My brain was ready for one thing, and now it works to shift to something new.

Plans Can Change

Sometimes a plan changes. A lesson moves. A trip is cancelled. My brain starts to adjust.

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Portrait of sammy
curious
My Brain Is Working Hard
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classroom

My Brain Is Working Hard

When a plan changes, my brain works hard to switch from what it was expecting. It is okay that this takes a moment — adjusting to new information is real mental work. My brain's preference for predictability is a feature of how it thinks, not a problem.

When a plan changes, my brain works hard to switch from what it was expecting. It is okay that this takes a moment — adjusting to new information is real mental work. My brain's preference for predictability is a feature of how it thinks, not a problem.

Adjusting Takes Work

When plans change, my brain works hard. It is okay that adjusting takes a moment. My brain is working, not broken.

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Portrait of sammy
calm
Raising My Hand and Asking
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school support area

Raising My Hand and Asking

The trusted adults at school understand that unexpected changes can feel harder for my brain. When I raise my hand and ask what the new plan is, the answer helps. Knowing what comes next gives my brain a clear path forward.

The trusted adults at school understand that unexpected changes can feel harder for my brain. When I raise my hand and ask what the new plan is, the answer helps. Knowing what comes next gives my brain a clear path forward.

I Ask for Help

Adults at school understand. I raise my hand. I ask what happens next. The answer helps.

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school school
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Portrait of sammy
focused
I Turn and I Wait
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classroom during a transition

I Turn and I Wait

I turn toward a trusted adult when a change comes, and I wait for more information. My hand goes up, and I ask the question my brain needs answered. I can try taking one slow breath while I wait for the new plan to arrive.

I turn toward a trusted adult when a change comes, and I wait for more information. My hand goes up, and I ask the question my brain needs answered. I can try taking one slow breath while I wait for the new plan to arrive.

Turn, Ask, and Wait

When things change, I turn to an adult. I raise my hand and ask. I can try to breathe and wait.

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adult adult
question question
Portrait of sammy
proud
I Am Getting Stronger at This
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living room at home

I Am Getting Stronger at This

Each time I work through a change, that is real progress for my brain. The people around me notice when I wait calmly and ask for what comes next. My brain is getting more practice at adjusting, and I am getting stronger at this.

Each time I work through a change, that is real progress for my brain. The people around me notice when I wait wait calmly and ask for what comes next. My brain is getting more practice at adjusting, and I am getting stronger at this.

I Am Getting Better

I am getting better at handling changes. People notice when I wait calmly. I am getting stronger at this.

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