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Asking for What I Need When Food Feels Different
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Portrait of sammy
proud
What I Already Know About My Body
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home kitchen

What I Already Know About My Body

My name is Sammy, and I know a great deal about what my body likes and dislikes. I notice textures, smells, and temperatures in food that other people around me sometimes do not notice. This careful attention to food is a real strength I have carried with me for a long time.

My name is Sammy, and I know a great deal about what my body likes and dislikes. I notice textures, smells, and temperatures in food that other people around me sometimes do not notice. This careful attention to food is a real strength I have carried with me for a long time.

I Know My Body

My name is Sammy. I notice a lot about food. I notice textures. I notice smells. I notice temperatures. This is a strength.

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Portrait of sammy
uncertain
When the Food on My Tray Feels Unfamiliar
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school cafeteria

When the Food on My Tray Feels Unfamiliar

At school lunches, the food on my tray is sometimes unfamiliar, and my brain notices right away. My body sends a careful signal that says this food is new and different from what I know. When everyone around me is eating without worry, I am not always sure what to do next.

At school lunches, the food on my tray is sometimes unfamiliar, and my brain notices right away. My body sends a careful signal that says this food is new and different from what I know. When everyone around me is eating without worry, I am not always sure what to do next.

New Food Is Hard

At school lunch, I see new food. My brain says this is new. My body is not sure. Other people eat. I do not always know what to do.

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Portrait of sammy
curious
My Brain Is Keeping Me Safe
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school library reading corner

My Brain Is Keeping Me Safe

My brain's careful signal around new food is actually a way of keeping me safe. When I wait a moment before deciding, my nervous system has more time to settle. I can try letting a new food sit on my plate while my brain gets used to it.

My brain's careful signal around new food is actually a way of keeping me safe. When I wait a moment before deciding, my nervous system has more time to settle. I can try letting a new food sit on my plate while my brain gets used to it.

My Brain Helps Me

My brain sends a signal about new food. This signal keeps me safe. I can wait. I can try letting new food sit on my plate.

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Portrait of sammy
calm
I Can Ask for Help
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home dining room

I Can Ask for Help

There are adults in my life who want to understand what food feels like for me. When I turn to a trusted adult and ask for help, I am sharing something important about myself. Raising my hand or speaking up at the table is a way to share what I need. It is okay to ask for a familiar food or to wait until I am ready.

There are adults in my life who want to understand what food feels like for me. When I turn to a trusted adult and ask for help, I am sharing something important about myself. Raising my hand or speaking up at the table is a way to share what I need. It is okay to ask for a familiar food or to wait until I am ready.

sammy: "Can I have my safe food instead?"

Ask for Help

Adults want to help me. I can turn to an adult. I can raise my hand. I can ask for my safe food. It is okay to wait.

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Portrait of sammy
confident
Using My Skills at the Party
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birthday party living room

Using My Skills at the Party

At a birthday party, I see foods on the table that my sensory system does not recognize yet. I raise my hand to get the adult's attention and ask about bringing my safe food. While I wait, I look at the other food from a distance without feeling pressure to eat it. The adult comes over and helps me find a quiet spot where my safe food is ready.

At a birthday party, I see foods on the table that my sensory system does not recognize yet. I raise my hand to get the adult's attention and ask about bringing my safe food. While I wait, I look at the other food from a distance without feeling pressure to eat it. The adult comes over and helps me find a quiet spot where my safe food is ready.

sammy: "Can I have my safe food? I am not ready for the other food yet."

I Ask at the Party

I see new food at the party. I raise my hand. I ask the adult for my safe food. I wait. The adult helps me.

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Portrait of sammy
proud
I Am Growing One Step at a Time
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home living room couch

I Am Growing One Step at a Time

I am learning that my sensory system and I can work together, one small step at a time. Knowing when to ask and when to wait are skills I am building each day. Adults and friends can support me when I raise my hand and share what I need. My relationship with food is my own, and I get to move through it at my own pace.

I am learning that my sensory system and I can work together, one small step at a time. Knowing when to ask and when to wait are skills I am building each day. Adults and friends can support me when I raise my hand and share what I need. My relationship with food is my own, and I get to move through it at my own pace.

I Am Growing

My sensory system and I work together. I learn to ask. I learn to wait. I raise my hand when I need help. I go at my own pace.

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